So this happened yesterday and it was pretty freaking cool.
If you follow on IG, you know I've been out at the barn actually doing noteworthy things with the horses lately, other than just feeding, grooming and life/soundness checks. (I swear this is not a shameless plug for my Instagram: it's just so much easier to post pics and quick updates there on a regular basis than it is to sit down and write an entire blog post. It can take me months to finish a blog post. It takes me less than a minute to do an IG post. So yes: there are near-daily updates on there.)
Mondays are my Saturdays in that they are my first day off after a weekend spent working. Carlos has managed to get his schedules to line up perfectly with mine so that, despite having what we call "reverse weekends" for the rest of the world, we still get to spend them together. On a fluke, Carlos had been scheduled to work this particular Monday so I was on my own. The weather promised to be GORGEOUS: breezy, sunny, upper 70's, so of course after training in the morning, I headed over to the barn to ride.
Lily spent the winter fat, fuzzy and happy, which is how I like to see her. With the transition from free choice hay to spring grass, however, she had lost a surprising amount of weight. This used to be her norm though so I wasn't too-too freaked out about it: we simply started graining her every day again, and within a week her weight has improved. My current formula for weight gain for her is pretty simple since she hates oils of any and all kinds: 5 lbs of Legends CarbCare Performance, 1 lb of Triple Crown 30% supplement, and 1 cup of ground flax (I use Triple Crown Omega Max because it is so much more cost effective than, say, Omega Horseshine: $20 for a 25 lb bag.) All of that, once a day. That's it. She's on grass 24/7. If we were doing hardcore riding (w/t/c & gallops) closer to an hour in length multiple times a week, I'd be adding hay and a second grain meal on top of that. But for 30-45 minutes two to three times a week, this works.
On this day my goal was to take both girls out of the field, feed and groom them, then let Lily hang out grazing outside of the field (the grass there is getting long and the girls love it) while I rode Gracie bareback in the vicinity.
Lily was plastered in mud from rolling in it after the weekend rains, so she had a bath prior to me hopping on Gracie, so she'd have a chance to dry off before being turned out again. She eagerly trotted next to me on a loose lead on our way to the wash stall (fyi: new barn has an enclosed double wash stall with hot and cold water), keeping pace to my walk: she was level-headed and happy but amped and I looked at her dubiously...I had only planned on riding one horse, but if she was being this goofy, she should be worked too.
Her first two times in this wash stall, she had forgotten that she had ever been in this type of space before (every barn we've boarded at except the stallion barn when we first moved to Frederick has had enclosed wash stalls. There are pics of her in wash stalls splattered throughout this blog over the course of the 7 years I've been writing here. No, this is not an exposure issue) and danced and screamed the entire time I was bathing her. I. can't. even. with screaming horses. It makes me crazy when she does that.
This time, however, she was a really good girl. She danced a bit initially but did not scream, despite letting me know that she is currently in heat when I went to hose off her rear end. >.<
I then put her back out on the grass next to the hitching post where Gracie was tied. I just dropped Lily's lead on the ground: she knows to take a hoof off if she steps on it, and she tends to stay where I leave her anyway, especially if G-Mare is close by. All of my horses get trained to be able to cope with stepping on their lead ropes on the ground. So no, not a safety issue with her.
I then tacked up Gracie with the bareback pad and her bridle.
She was not thrilled with this idea.
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| "How come she gets to eat and I have to work???" I laughed at her expressions. The mare does not need words for speaking. Sorry Gracie, but you're still a fatty so you need to get your rear in gear! |
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| Gracie's disapproving ears...*snorts with laughter* |
I rode Gracie around the small grassy area between the horse fields, slowly circling further and further away from her sister. Lily whinnied once, but was too enthralled with munching on the grass to do anything more. She continued to be a very good girl, staying where I had left her.
Carlos and I were planning to ride the next day when he was off again, and while riding Gracie I pondered this: Lily should be worked if she had been high-energy enough to trot next to me while leading her to the wash stall. Should I lunge her in the outdoor? I could just work her in the round pen. But I had to run errands and I didn't want to take too long.
A few days before I had watched the barn trainer ponying a baby from her lanky dappled gray TB mare. The trainer was in full Western attire, right down to the fringed chaps, and expertly handled both horses with ease, despite both the baby and the TB deciding to be uncooperative about crossing a very large puddle. I had stopped to watch because she made the whole thing look like a choreographed dance, even when the horses had briefly misbehaved.
I remembered that now and wondered...what about ponying Lily off of Gracie? I listed in my head why I thought this might work:
1. The two mares get along.
2. I was on the alpha. Lily respects Gracie and Gracie doesn't pick on Lily.
3. Lily will follow on a slack lead rope.
4. Lily respects personal space of both horses and people.
5. Gracie can be ridden one-handed and responds well to leg and seat cues.
6. Both mares respond to voice commands.
7. If either of them disagreed with the situation, I could just drop Lily's lead rope: we were right next to her field, so she wasn't going to go anywhere.
Mind you, I've never ponied a horse. But I felt pretty confident about the girls' skill set to be able to do this correctly.
Oh yeah: remember I was on the bareback pad for this. No saddle.
So I rode Gracie over to Lily, who lifted her head when we approached and let me reach for her lead rope from Gracie's back. I gathered up the lead rope in my right hand (I use 15 foot lead ropes) so that Lily's head would be even with my right knee, and took Gracie's reins with my left hand.
We started out at a walk, first going in straight lines...and I was very impressed with both Gracie's willingness to have Lily stay close to her, and Lily's willingness to stay right next to my knee. She didn't try to barge ahead, she didn't lag behind nor made me yank on the lead rope to get her to stay with us. It was like we had always been practicing this.
So I upped the ante: we added large circles to the left, which meant Lily had to move faster than Gracie in order to keep up, since she was on the outside of the circle. It only took one attempt for her to understand this. I then verbally said, "Trot-trot." Gracie picked up her gait and Lily a nice slow jog that kept her right next to Gracie. We started with straight lines again, then circles to the left...then large circles to the right, which then meant Lily had to slow down because we were turning around her. I slowly made the circles smaller in each direction and both mares responded without issue.
"Whoa," I said.
Both mares stopped simultaneously.
OMFG you guys! I was SO PROUD OF THEM. They were literally putting together everything I've ever taught them in order to do this. I was also using what I had learned with them while on the endurance trail: the ability to be on one horse, keeping tabs on her and myself, while also paying attention to what was going on with the other. They both respond to me first over whomever else is on their backs, which made this even more of a breeze for all three of us.
On a whim, I took them over the bridge to the area around the arenas. We rode around the indoor, circled the round pen, did the small trail around the big outdoor, rode into the outdoor itself and practiced figure-8s, long diagonals and changes of direction. All of this at the gait/trot.
What was going to originally be a 10-minute experiment turned into a 30-minute workout for both mares. It was a huge success.
I returned to the barn today with Carlos in tow, and hopped on Gracie again with just the bareback pad. I then grabbed Lily's lead rope and off we went, this time so we could get actual footage.
I love how they move in tandem, despite one having a diagonal gait and the other a lateral gait.
Lily tried to barge ahead and I made them halt and asked her to back up. She then looked over at Carlos with the camera like, "Ohai!" before realizing that we had just started to move again. She immediately brings her attention back to Gracie and me and follows willingly.
(And yes, Lily is ribbier than I like to see her. Like I said above: it is being addressed and she is improving.)
We demonstrate our turning skills here.
And then this happened...
Which led to this happening:
| Did I tell you guys there is trail access at this barn? Because there is. |



